Showing posts with label Teresa Stephens Harvey. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Teresa Stephens Harvey. Show all posts

Thursday, May 9, 2013

May Days...

Crazy weather but I am loving the progress around our little neighborhood, aren't you? My flowers and trees are budding and blooming despite the ups and downs.
Honeysuckle Estates *Porch Inspriation


Have you been watching the new house being built? Looks like it is coming along well AND we will have another one soon. Another lot on Evening Lane sold and the sand and porta potty is in place. HA. Exciting times. It also looks like the Pastors former house will be enjoying a pool this summer. So fun!


Honeysuckle Estates *Pool Inspriation


What are you doing to get ready for summer? New plants, patio cover, pool? Fighting the rock pile is always a challenge out here. Hang in there and stay frosty.

Honeysuckle Estates *Garden Inspirations
 
 
 

Friday, May 3, 2013

Missing Mississippi Teen!

A Friend and former neighbor has sent me this information to share.  Please feel free to share, repost or send links to anyone in the Mississippi area that might be able to help.

Stephen Tyler Emerick is missing. He went missing late Monday night after becoming ill at work.

The following articles give information on the search.

Search Continues

Stephen Tyler Emerick

Face Book for Find Stephen Tyler Emerick

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Happy 2013

Happy 2013. May your yesterdays be fond memories or lessons learned. May your tomorrows be used to full fill your dreams, grow, learn, and be filled with happiness. Each day is what you make it.  Are you making yours worth the journey?!


Sunday, November 11, 2012

Veteran's Day!




Veteran's Day Discounts

We are so honored by the great men and women who have served for our country! To protect, defend, serve and sacrifice. WE will never forget and forever be greatful.

Monday, October 8, 2012

Columbus Day Remembered...



A poem by my cousin. Aloha!

We the people…
poetry about a Great Nation. 
By Bryn James

Be careful with your money; be careful with your time,
Be careful with your thoughts, before you spend that dime.
A nickel won’t buy you almost anything,
So what happened to our money; it’s in the washing machine.
The politicians are taking it and making it real clean,
They’re gonna take a dollar and put it in your jeans.
What they don’t tell you is that the money you just collected,
It ain’t worth half the price of a nickel in the Great Depression.
Party for today, party for tonight,
Party for forever, it’s really out of sight!
Some people try to tell you to let your senses go,
Don’t worry about tomorrow; it’s just a picture show.
Go ahead and give-in and don’t worry about protectin’,
All the years of history that made this nation worth defendin’.
They tell you the planet is the greater good and we are all not equal,
The ruthless rulers in other parts of the world are waiting for our sequel.
They want to get their hands on the things that your ancestors built for you,
They want to destroy the foresight to be conservative and they want to melt the glue.
The glue that built this Great Nation, the glue that keeps us together,
They want to destroy the things that hold us by our tether.
Put aside the hard work you do in the morning dew,
They tell you it won’t help you make a break through.
They forget our nation was built on ‘the early bird gets the worm,’
And they turned it into a ‘sleep late and make others squirm.’

Some foreign rulers had the spirit to put up a fight and then divide,
They cried they lied; they even tried to break our Nation’s pride.
Foreign rulers asked us to help them based on our spirit of humanity,
They played on our Christianity and tried to turn it into insanity.
Which would you rather be, a nation that stands tall and strong,
Or be in a world of nations where no one ever gets along?
They tell you that we are all one-world and we must go nation-less,
They tell you we must have peace and social progressiveness.
But who will be our leader and by what method will they lead,
It’s not ever told to us because some lead so they can deceive.
Make sure you know if you are voting for, is it socialism or worse,
That means you give up whatever you’ve worked hard to put in your own purse.
Through hard work and sacrifice you have put some things aside.
You want future generations of your own people-kind so they won’t be denied.
But now they want to take your share from you but watch how they will divide,
In the name of humanity and giving to less fortunate who for themselves cannot provide.
They give what you worked to save and give it to those who have less,
They give it to those who have squandered and made a big, big mess.
Others lives may be tattered, shattered and torn all apart,
Now you are told that you made the wrong choice because you got a ‘head start.’
Just because you are beleaguered at helping the poor and weak,
And you are struggling on your own and the future is looking bleak.
Don’t let the government tell you what you must do,
To give up what you have worked for your whole life through.
Make your life strong, stand up for yourself and family,
Our founding fathers knew quite well of this coming infamy.

Don’t let it fade away by the chipping of outside forces,
Watch how you surrender to the slaves on pretty white horses.
They attack us at our money base with high gasoline prices,
They tell us we are at fault; we have caused the world’s crises.
Go green, go clean, or you blow the planet to smithereens,
Shut down the plants, the farms, the factories and machines.
Let us, the government; help you get back to Mother Nature,
In the meantime, the best you can do is to suffer from your bad behavior.
Give up your large home to some others, who don’t have as much,
Move over and make way for the Duchess of such and such.
It sounds like you’re helping others; it rings so solid and true,
Are they also asking you to give up the Red, White and Blue?
We are a nation who helps our fallen and hurt,
We are a nation of wonderful people when are in the dirt.
Stand up for liberty and happiness and life,
Don’t let them take you down and keep you out of the fight.
There once was a movie I saw with something like this,
It started quite happy and even ended with a kiss.

But during the story that we all followed along,
Something went bad, something went terribly wrong.
Hard times happened in the story, like often it does,
The people thought that it was a benefit that was the story, the buzz.
The President came in and told us it was a mess,
This trouble before us was just a human fortitude test.
He said it was for the benefit of some, no ‘not,’ it’s for all,
Let’s bail out the banks and the car makers before we have a great fall.
So Detroit was taken, split up and divided,
Some parts were shipped to European countries, why were we mis-guided?
The banks were told to take money or you will surely fail,
Take it whether you need it or not; no, no, no, it’s not black mail.
We know what is better; we know the overall plan,
We’re just not telling every citizen, woman and man.
With great force, with great vigor and decisiveness,
The President brought in his best advisors, best trained in divisiveness.
General Motors must go to the hands of the labor union,
Aghast, a person remarked, we’ve become the Soviet Union.

The unions are running the empires of our manufacturing,
Our strong nation is turning weak and fracturing.
Our government is controlled by the unions who tell us,
How much they will charge you for retirement, they don’t discuss.
Some who took the job of government servant, we find out way too late,
It wasn’t for the service; it was for the amount they were underpaid.
You see all others are rich, in their own eyes,
They didn’t have to be humble; they didn’t have to tell white lies.
The servants of the people had to bite their tongues,
Others could breathe freely but we, the servants, suffered in our lungs.
You see, as government workers we were expected to follow
The current politicians promises for the great tomorrow.
We couldn’t object or we would lose our jobs,
We couldn’t say anything, we didn’t know who robs.
So they compromised their principles and their common sense,
They went along with whatever was thrown over the fence.
So you see they must get paid the best advantages in old age,
Or you better be ready to be put up with their golden rage.
You see they have suffered this major indignation,
They were serving the people, they were serving the nation.
What happened to individual nature, freedom and hard work?
Make an honest dollar for a hard day in the dirt.
It’s been overtaken, its passé, it’s not the right thing,
Can you express your honesty, when you say something?
No matter if you try to quote the Nation’s founding documents,
Someone will try to inject their own twisted comments.
You don’t know what’s right and you know what’s wrong,
You just don’t know, until the Supreme Court has sung the last song.
So go out and vote and make the statement that you wish,
Just don’t come back later and say it was a day you missed.
The right you have to vote is the only voice you get,
The right you have to vote is the only voice you submit.
October 8, 2012 – Discover’s Day
Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Yes! Honeysuckle Estates is a great place to live.

The neighborhood is growing and changing.  We once again have two families that will be leaving our neighborhood and hate to see them go. Two great houses are on the market and awaiting their new families.

We have a lot of opportunities to be involved and to get out and meet the neighbors. First up will be the neighborhood annual Halloween party!

Hope everyone is having a great week.

Don't you love the country life? Our neighborhood is FAB! Happy October.


Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Cyber Stalker, Creepers, Peepers...



Cyberbullies are not any different from a normal bully.  They are unhappy, blustering, overbearing, small minded individuals whose intent is to cause malice and harm through badgering and intimidation. The goal is to discredit and harm others through lies, intimidation and misuse of information.

You can stop their their mischief by not supporting their cause. Reporting the abuse using the "report" buttons, removing them and blocking them from your online sites.  Doing nothing does give them a sense of success and feeds the personal high they achieve by harming others.

A cyberbully has a whole arsenal of supplies to achieve their goals.  They can use social networking sites, online information data bases, online video and picture sites to target an individual. There are blogs and websites that automatically pull from YouTube and other websites any content based on descriptions and or tags - so information can be spread and shared at warp speed.

How?

Bullies can keep it personal and use email, phone calls & text. But with the popularity of the internet, digital photography, videos and smart phones bullies can now take photos, edited video clips, or out of context pictures, video and information then add malicious statements and comments to spin a story that will suck in an audience.  It doesn't have to be true, doesn't have to have any truth in it - but if it has a picture attached it draws people in to look and to possibly believe what is stated. Some bullies will even use a shred of truth that is manipulated, i.e. "I have a stalker that drives slowly past my house 6 or 7 times a day". The bully leaves out the fact that the "stalker" is really a neighbor that lives next door and drives the residential speed limit past their home every time they leave the neighborhood. But,  not everyone will not stop and ask themselves if the picture or video really add up or know any of the personal players involved. A bully is well adept at the art of editing and altering both the facts and the images they are promoting. A picture or video, are easily altered with photo shop and/or other online editing sources. The altered image can then be used to support the verbiage attached.  A bully will ensure they never show the information and actions that helped insight a response or what was really going on when the images were captured. The bullies will only create a response to support their cause by using the tools of the trade to alter, add in or take away sound bytes, totally manipulating the information so that the situation will draw in an audience to support or victimize based on the bullies agenda.

OK, so what, you say?  Not many people will see that. Or will they?
The art of online marketing is now used by our bullies.  Using catchy or trendy search names like "Jennifer Anniston", "Green Living", "Space Aliens", etc...help their content pull up in search engines.  Now they have a bigger market.  A prime example is the Jennifer Aniston Video to market water.  The video is set to play automatically anytime someone clicks on it - so even if you don't want to promote the video it will play & gain attention and support. More plays the more popular!

Marketing a video to get attention


But not everyone will know who they are talking about, will they?
Tags. You don't have to outright use a persons name & address to target them. Tags are identifying features you can use on almost all websites that allow you to add content.  A bully can learn personal and identifying information about you then add those tags to their content so that it will be linked to your online presence and/or personal information. Your name, address, work, etc., even in random order will now link back to their target.

Is that legal?
Yes. Anyone can take pictures of you, videos of you & use your information. Internet crime laws are vague and stalkers and bullies know this. Unless it is a crime or exploitation of a child the crimes are few and far between.   That being said there are some laws that prevent some of this as outlined in an earlier post, however, a lot of it is open to interpretation.  Also, anything put on the internet takes time to remove. The sites have to be checked, the information provided has to be researched and proven, then the laws have to be reviewed so the content can remain for weeks or even months before it's gone.  Also, if it is only reported by the person who is targeted then it will get little notice. Most sites require a minimum amount of complaints before it's even reviewed.  Making it more difficult is the fact that some sites only allow you to report an abuse if it is a violation against you. Also, as with the Jennifer Aniston video on some sites or videos when you click on them to report them they play & gain attention through viewings. This causes a Catch 22.

Now what?

Report, flag for abuse, block and request content to be removed.  Report the information to teachers and counselors if you are a student. If you are an adult report it to the proper authorities, police, internet crime services, and actual websites. You may have to do this more than once.  Take screen shots of the offending material. Send links to the authorities. They can document and make a report, even if there isn't an actual crime yet.  This helps protect you if it becomes a civil matter or the criminal lines get crossed. Just printing out the material isn't good enough - remember photo shop and/or editing services?  They can be used both ways so courts don't allow information that can be easily altered as evidence. However, having it witnessed and documented by the proper authorities does make for credible evidence. There are also online information storage companies that can protect and encrypt information as it was on a certain date & time.  Remember the bully can go in and alter, add to, take away or delete the information at anytime.

Keep things in perspective. Remember when viewing information online that just because someone uses words like:

Jealous, stalking, weird, unhappy, crazy etc...that the person using those words is most likely the one who is the perpetrator not the victim.  Be proactive and don't support malicious activity online.

Online and everywhere in your life be responsible and thoughtful.

More information against Cyberbully and online Harassment:

Family Safety
Steps on reporting abuse.
Kids & Teens - steps to know
McGruff puts a bite on bullies!

STALKING

Sometimes standard stalking goes hand in hand. Unfortunately, in Texas, Stalking Laws currently are directed at spouses or intimate partners.  There is very little that can be done if it's a neighbor or random person. Our family has suffered from an obsessed woman, we nicknamed "McFreakster", the police and DA's office are involved as they should be but the harassment still continues. Tougher laws need to be made.

This woman creates fiction and slander about me and our family...takes pictures obsessively and post them often claiming they are my photos or with fictional text making it seem something other than the reality. She will take internet postings and remove dates or change the text and original wording and add my name and picture and post it. Often times making it seem that I have visited her sites or sent her something that I never sent.

When dealing with a sick individual you have to keep your focus. Work with authorities and document as much as possible, the process is slow but they can help you. If the person is using the internet they can help get the content removed when it violates policy and content or state laws.

Stay vigilant and keep the focus on your family and move on as much as you can. Screen shots of some of her obsessive rants and postings.

Picture taken standing on a ladder - taken over an 8' fence

Night vision camera and a ladder were used to film over an 8' privacy fence.
Creepers!






A history of problems. Who can trust a liar and a thief?




Getting inappropriate material removed is time consuming but necessary.








These are just a few of the many problems and invasion of our life created by the person that cyber stalked and bullied us for 3+ years. It is hard to deal with but working with authorities, reporting it and following up can help.

















Thursday, April 7, 2011

Sweet...

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God, and the peace of God will guard your hearts and your minds in Jesus Christ. -Philippians 4:6-7
 It is uncanny to me how a scripture will show up in my life at the most opportune time. This verse was on a friends site and the first thing I saw two mornings ago. It had been a rough day. With a move, a school year to wrap up, and a hubby working out of town life is a BIG juggle. 
 Fortunately I have wonderful extended family support, great friends, and supportive and fun neighbors that keep me going and help our little family run smoother.  But, even with all that there are days that life and a little bit of the devil get to you and throw a cog in the wheel.  
Just at that moment when it would be easy to feel glum I have a friend that is good enough to remind me I have even more support than just friends and family.  I have an AWESOME God! Who takes care of those small little issues of life.  He will even carry us when the load seems much too heavy for our own human arms to carry. He sends us support in the form of friends, family, a nice note, a fun joke, a dinner at the table with your children, or a solution to a problem.  
This scripture reminds us that we need to communicate with our Father and make him aware of our needs and desires. He will listen and he will answer in his own perfect timing. 
 

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Spring is in the air!

Wow, March is here!  It's a great time to get that veggie garden ready & to plant a little Spring color to perk up your yard after the long Wintery grey days.

Next week is Spring break for MISD and other Metroplex schools so lots of family fun days...here's wishing everyone beautiful weather and lots of family fun!!

 If you have a little extra time we will be working on cleaning up the lot next to the Summers house this weekend to have it Easter Egg ready!  Come on out neighbors and lend a hand. ;)

Friday, February 26, 2010

Winter blues...


As a native Texan and raised here in the DFW metroplex I can honestly say that I've had enough of winter!  Love a little cold weather, a little snow and a few over cast gray days.  Hello, we've had all that. This Texas girl is ready for warmer days!

As I was getting ready to take the kiddo's to school last week I happened to glimpse a hot air balloon landing in our neighborhood on an empty lot.  This happens every so often out here.  It was so fun & it reminded me Spring is around the corner. 

So you might want to start getting ready for that now.  A few things you can do are:

1. Go through the kids clothing and start tossing out torn or overly worn pieces and start a charity bag for any items that are outgrown. 

2. Start browsing the pre-season sales to stock up on staples of shorts, tanks, flip flops for the kiddo's or yourself.

3. White sales are on their way too so if you need to replace bedding or just want a fun up date start looking now.

4. Order seeds! It's time to order seeds for flowers or veggies that you might want to incorporate into this years garden.  This will give you more bang for your buck and a great pay off in a few months.

5. Dust out those corners and windowsills to get rid of any cobwebs and hidden spider eggs! EEK, spiders are big out here! So, take a broom or a vacuum wand covered with an old stocking or sock and get rid of those pesky little webs & eggs now.

Something you can do tomorrow, Saturday, 2/27/10 - Attend the LaRue Miller Carnival, what better way to dust off the winter blues?